First of all it is important to understand that what will arouse one man will turn another off like a light switch. Therefore, general advice is totally useless which is why you need to text me for personal advice. If your husband is having problems in the bedroom it could be mental or physical and I can advise you. Is he stressed? Is he eating the wrong diet? Is he having an affair? Does sexy underwear turn him on or put him under pressure to perform?

Is he failing to get an erection? If so why? Is premature ejaculation a problem? What can you do about it? Does he fail to orgasm? If so why? I can help you with one to one advice if you text me.

RELAXING YOUR HUSBAND WITH SEX

Sex is a great way to wear off the effects of stress. A massage, a bottle of champagne, sexy underwear and candle light are all good scene setters but if there are underlying problems they can also be a huge problem to a man. Whilst a woman can go through the motions of sex even if she doesn't feel particularly sexy a man has to get an erection and in order to do this he needs to be both physically and mentally capable of performing. I can advise you.

In their teens, men have masses of testosterone that causes them to have erections at anytime and without stimulation. They have reached their peak by the time they are in their early twenties and testosterone levels drop. As they grow older, they need more stimulation to get this chemical flowing and what will turn your husband on is not the same as anyone else. Seek my advice now.